06-15-2021, 02:57 AM
Just saw this, so being more canine-oriented / experienced I figured I'd toss my two cents worth in the pile.
My first question would be, is she a 'rescure' / 'adoption'? It does indeed sound like it. If so, sadly to say, she could he having fear / stress issues around the activity of sex. That's the bad part about rescues / adoption (though I like adoption over shopping, when you can rescue with S / N being performed, etc..).
Second, there's really no way you can 'train it out', if it's something as limbic as muscular contraction / urination, it's going to be hard for her to realize 'not here sweetie, just washed the sheets'.
Best suggestions I can offer:
* Make sure she's had a wee outside, make sure she's had a walk even.
* Ensure she's relaxed, and not at all showing signs of stresses (tenseness, ears pinned in any particular spot, REALLY wide eyes, showing teeth / snarl / etc...).
If you're unsure if she's 'had it bad' from a previous 'owner' or 'roomie' (human or canine) maybe start a little slower: some rubbing, a lubed (gloved, if rough skin / nails, rubber / PVC / latex free and SMOOTH of course) finger, etc.. Even your tongue, just be ready, if she lets go you may get a nasty surprise in your mouth if you're not in to WS.
Of course, there's the 'trips to the tub', but hopefully you two can work it out.
Depending on her mood, btw: it could be stress (as discussed) or, even submissive urination. Especially if she's been spayed / altered in any way.
