12-21-2017, 12:24 AM
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2 hours ago, Cynolove693 said:
Don't get me wrong when I love; I fall for someone immensely; it's not the act of sex that makes me feel guilty; its the fact that I've went behind others backs and slept with their animals; that's my main reason for feeling guilt, even though it's been years since I've done so; I still feel bad that I did..
The shitty part is I can't get it off my chest, it's not like i can go up to a non zoo and apologize for letting their dog have sex with me, for doing so behind their back.. so I just keep feelings bottled up, and learn from my mistakes, guess that's all I can do..
We all have made mistakes while accepting and seeking to understand our feelings toward non-humans. That we learn, from our mistakes, and become better companions, partners and lovers because of them that matters. Guilt is not the answer though, even though as you say it is near impossible to make closure for the mistake or past behavior. We have a chance these days that was not given us when we were young, we can make our experience a lesson for others that may save them doing the same, and perhaps save some pain, to them and the animals. Talking about it here may release some of that guilt you feel. It has helped me with mine.
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