Sex deprivation

[Cynolove693]

On 1/26/2018 at 6:44 PM, silverwolf1 said:




Insults and clone accounts are not allowed here, by any member including Staff. To Cynolove: I'm not sure what you hope to gain with posts like these, but I do feel posts on your health should be confined to one thread rather than several. I'd recommend it be in the General Discussion forum. I've edited the Mod reply in this thread, as well as removed the clones replies and account. The Mod has been warned, but will remain a staff member. I fully understand his motive if not his method. Your post came off like a threat of suicide and he feared for you. It still reads so to me. We are all allowed one mistake though, both he and you, and I if that wasn't your intent. Hiway will remain in charge except the few times I might get to pop in. I remain confident in his ability.




My own thoughts on your post and your being here: First, sex isn't everything, nor is reciprocal love. I too have gone long times without either and with feeling it to be a lost cause. We survive it, or we don't. If we spend each day pitying ourself for it, we lose that day, and eventually that week, month, year, etc. On the topic; Sex Deprivation is easy enough, you just don't get any. Intentionally depriving is harder though, as you then think of it ALL THE TIME! I did that for 7 years after Tippy died, failing only after looking in Shadows eyes one too many nights...




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Silverwolf I wasn't trying to gain anything by this post, was venting my feelings instead of keeping them in, and was simply trying to seek advice.. Clone account?? I'm confused now?? If your talking about the person that responded here with the name of Nobody, that was an actual different member as far as I'm aware at least, I had a long conversation with him via the pm's here.. I 100% realize sex isn't everything, damn, say one thing about missing sex and everyone and their brother gets offended!! Seems everyone ignored the fact that I said my depression stems mostly from lack of love in my life and the fact that I repressed my love for a friends dog (a year after my own passed away), which I may add was the strongest bond I've ever had before, so that alone was very difficult to do, and only made the deppression I've had for quite sometime now worse.. If you look into it from a psychological point of view; yes reciprocal love is a big part of keeping a healthy mindset; without social interaction or love a persons mental health can be greatly impacted.. I'm not depressed just because I haven't had sex, Ive went years without it in the past and was fine, I'm depressed because of my current situation, but I'm done trying to explain myself on here, because everyone else wants to misread what my intentions are.. I'll keep what's on my mind, there in my head from now on [img]<fileStore.core_Emoticons>/emoticons/wink.png[/img]/emoticons/[email protected] 2x" title=";)" width="20" />

21 hours ago, farellfoxx said:




I beg to differ, I've never been in "true love" or had sex, and I still get depressed about it.

My point exactly, belittling someone just because they are depressed, should NEVER be an acceptable behavior, especially if they posses suicidal tendencies or threaten suicide; people need to remember that depression can be the same as other mental illnesses and impact your ability to think clearly, see its not just me who suffers from depression from lack of love, or feeling something physical, although I have loved and had sex before, farellfoxx is another person here who could relate to my situation, I understand entirely what your going through man, I've been there, lack of a partner in your life can be really difficult, especially in your situation as you haven't even got the chance to love, I can imagine how that feels, I was in that same situation for years until I got my first dog when I was a teenager, I felt extremely alone up until the point I got my first lab pup, she was so adorable and cuddly [img]<fileStore.core_Emoticons>/emoticons/wub.png[/img]/emoticons/[email protected] 2x" title=":x" width="20" />