01-31-2018, 12:59 PM
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On 1/26/2018 at 5:44 PM, silverwolf1 said:
My own thoughts on your post and your being here: First, sex isn't everything, nor is reciprocal love. I too have gone long times without either and with feeling it to be a lost cause. We survive it, or we don't. If we spend each day pitying ourself for it, we lose that day, and eventually that week, month, year, etc. On the topic; Sex Deprivation is easy enough, you just don't get any. Intentionally depriving is harder though, as you then think of it ALL THE TIME! I did that for 7 years after Tippy died, failing only after looking in Shadows eyes one too many nights...
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Please believe me, I have tried both ways and it is much tougher going forward when you have to face leaving that part of your life on the operating room floor. There is no reprieve and no second chance. I think it's important to talk about it because this is going to happen to everybody here sooner or later. If you are lucky you may have no more than a few seconds to live with the idea but the odds say that most will have years
