Sex deprivation

[Resident Hyaena]

20 hours ago, caikgoch said:




Please believe me, I have tried both ways and it is much tougher going forward when you have to face leaving that part of your life on the operating room floor.      There is no reprieve and no second chance.    I think it's important to talk about it because this is going to happen to everybody here sooner or later.     If you are lucky you may have no more than a few seconds to live with the idea but the odds say that most will have years

Very true.




I am also on the other side of sixty. And though *so far* I have avoided the more dire medical and physical debilitations, I have noticed a definite decline in the functioning of my own reproductive system, in conjunction with, or perhaps because of, a decline in those specific reproductive neurological functions. Reduced tissue elasticity and associated circulatory efficiency likely also has a role.




Currently, I have one male Avian partner. Because of a physical constraint on his part, not related to cloacal compatibility, I cannot engage in genital-to-genital contact with him. He is also at a comparable age to my own, and his own responses are beginning to ebb.




I am not currently in a position where I would be allowed to acquire an additional partner or partners, though I do see that changing in a couple or three years or so. But by the time I can gain a partner that can engage in such activities, it is very likely that my equipment "down there" may no longer be up to the task.




But I still have full function of my mouth, and full tactile, olfactory and gustatory sensitivity, with no signs of any of them diminishing at all. So even if my equipment "down there" can no longer couple and share my genital fluids, I can still use my equipment "up here" to bury myself into a Bird's soft, warm under-tail, take their vent into my mouth, feel their thrust & draw, their rub & grind, feel their shiver, hear their sounds, and taste what they give me.




And indeed, despite our mutual decline, my current Avian partner and I still engage in regular and intense oral-ventral activity!




I know that sooner or later the loss will happen, and I will regret that day. But as long as i can still bring pleasure and joy to a Bird's life, I will be happy.

 




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