05-28-2018, 07:27 AM
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21 hours ago, 30-30 said:
A user named Rebel of the Sacred Heart once called Beastforum "the epicenter of anti true zoo propaganda" and I wholeheartedly agree with him on that. Practically everyone having feelings that go beyond bestialistic simple horniness for animals won´t endure the general sex centered climate in BF more than than a couple of months. Sad to say that BF probably is defining what "zoophilia" "is" more than all other "zoo" and zoo forums combined.
I´m cautious, but not paranoid. Sure it helps to get a honest impression of someone else when you speak the same language, you effortlessly identify nuances and the metatext behind the written words, but I also have zoo friends that are not native German speakers...my level of confidence in people largely depends on their personality and my instincts that are quite reliable so far. In total, I am in contact with about 15 people rightfully calling themselves zoophile, but you have to consider that I´m in this online "zoo" forum stuff for ages, since the beginning of the nineties. And about that "no one knows about you in RL"...well, in my first riding club, I suppose that everyone "knew" my mare and me had more than just a horse-rider relationship. I know for sure that the owner of the small private stable my mare was boarded for about 8 years really knew about my mare and me as I had the "luck" to overhear her talking to her father...about me and my mare, ending with "At least, it´s a mare...". Both of them definitely knew what was going on between my mare and me. Some of my closer non zoo friends also know because I told ´em. My mother and my sister also know...and are very supportive.
Whenever the topic turns towards how "persecuted" we zoos are, I always say that it´s not exactly as bad as many portray it. During my life as an active zoo, I found out that many people are tolerant or neutral/indifferent , many you wouldn´t think of being cool with it. You shouldn´t mistake "accepted traditional bestiality" as it happens in some North African or South American countries for tolerance or even accpetance....it´s one thing to vent off your juvenile sexual energies with an animal that excludes the risk of a pregnancy being tolerated, but an entirely different thing to really stick with your mare and do/sacrifice everything for her so she can live a pleasant life. Even in "related" forums like BF, there are people saying that fucking an animal is fun, but claiming to feel real love and devotion for it is sick and people claiming to be zoophiles should visit a shrink. As a zoo, it should become your second nature to always stay on guard, regardless of whatever...but it´s certainly a nice-to-have thing if your close relatives are somehow tolerant, makes life a bit easier. Not like "totally easy", but easier than having to hide your orientation from everybody.
Indeed it's very sex centered, it's such a pain in the arse; because being it the most popular it's what people then think we are, which is shit; but I guess that's what you get when this kind of stuff is for profit.
"At least, it´s a mare...". oh god I found this shit hilarious and cute and the same time, I am just imagining the scene; how the hell you are obvious anyway then?... [img]<fileStore.core_Emoticons>/emoticons/laugh.png[/img]/emoticons/[email protected] 2x" title="xD" width="20" /> I wonder if anyone close with animal knowledge can figure when you are in a relationship with the animal and the animal is your mate; I don't know if to be scared about that, because oh god I love fuzzy cuddles, and I wouldn't mind doing them in public, I mean they are not even sexual per say, but I seriously don't see people cuddling with their pets and stuff nor mutual grooming; "At least is a mare", haha, I can imagine your face.
Indeed most people are pretty indifferent, but you get an intolerant one and you are screwed, they have the law in their favour; however I'd disagree with the part that says that "accepting traditional bestiality" does not represent tolerance, I'd say it doesn't give any acceptance, because it's taboo, but in my experience, as born in a place where horsefucking was a thing that even teens were proud of doing, if you actually fell in love with the animal, none would give a shit, literally; and some people actually did, hell we had songs in popular folklore that said just this, how it started just as an adventure (usually with a female horse) and then the cowboy would fall in full love and would start neglecting his wife, some even tell the story of how they breed together [img]<fileStore.core_Emoticons>/emoticons/laugh.png[/img]/emoticons/[email protected] 2x" title="xD" width="20" />, can you imagine songs like that, they'd be banned in the west right away, they are waaaay outnumbered by pure sex people, but it happened from time to time... and from what I heard my uncle was one of those... ._. even when he'd end up married to a woman later, he'd be murdered when I was a kid, for, unrelated reasons.
Telling to my close and even further relatives from there is a no risk, but they don't like it, just like they didn't like it with my uncle, so I see no point, but I assume they know, I was a very zoophilic teenager now that I think about it [img]<fileStore.core_Emoticons>/emoticons/laugh.png[/img]/emoticons/[email protected] 2x" title="xD" width="20" />
