05-28-2018, 08:51 PM
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1 hour ago, 30-30 said:
What I would do? The only thing that´s sane to do in that scenario, deny, deny, deny. Unless it´s a person you know well and is a close friend you have nothing to fear from, denial is the only way to react.
How a relationship with an animal feels like, what it is like, the deepness...well, I´d say that´s largely dependent on the person involved. I´ve seen enough so called "zoos" who all say they´re "so deeply in love with their animal", but objectively don´t show much affection towards it besides sex. And you may be surprised how little the relevance of "the fur and the scents" really is if you aren´t a fetishist for fur and smells. I do not love my mare for her physical traits, I predominantly love her because of her personality, the soul behind the body. In the end, it´s your own ability to develop selfless love that defines how deep a relationship with an animal gets. Not fur or scents.
Well sexuality comes from something, and that something is usually some form or idea of stimuli, and after that you fall in love for what that stimuli belongs from, you didn't fall in love for a disembodied soul, you fall in love with horses because they are horse shaped, horse smelling, horse acting, horse everything... otherwise, why not another animal, why not humans? there are humans with pure souls as well.
I love the animal, don't get me wrong, I am far from a fetishist, but the sensations that I imagine I can get from I wonder if it would fill this emotional void, I love animal's fur, scents and attitude; if it wasn't I'd not be zoo, and I'd take the least friction path and chose humans with a great soul, in fact I've met amazing people with humble personalities, and it has hurted me a lot the fact I am unable to feel the same way for them simply because they are not animals; that's because it's a sexuality that depends on certain stimuli, otherwise hormones won't be released and you won't feel in love, and that is the pleasure you feel when you are close to your mare, it's dopamine pleasuring you for caring of your mate.
And the fact is that I simply can't fall in love with humans just because they are humans and don't show the traits I'd expect for a mate, no matter how good they are, I can have sex with them, but it doesn't pleasure me, and I still develop no feelings for them (something I learned the hard way); and the fact I expect a specific set of stimuli, doesn't make me a fetishist, that's what makes me zoo basically, I want fur, I want a muzzle on my face, and a wild carefree attitude; the fact that other people do not care of their mates other than for sex, doesn't make me an equal; you don't have idea, how deep I feel this connection with animals is, even when, I haven't been able to experience it first hand, to love and be loved, and I am talking nonsexually.
