11-19-2018, 03:00 AM
Even if he hadn´t told it himself, I could easily see Rannoch was an "aspie". But that´s a core problem when this "aspie" tries to weigh in on a topic that demands actual insight into other people´s thoughtpatterns to be successful. Like a double amputee with no arms trying to compete in javelin. Rannoch absolutely was entitled to his own opinion and I cannot blame him for that. What I can blame him for was his complete ignorance of how to negotiate with society to find compromises and that an "aspie" may be the exact wrong person to do this.
And I may repeat myself, but isn´t Rannoch in the end the one to blame for all his shortcomings regarding zoophilia? It´s him who decided to come out to his parents, obviously heavily influenced by the very same ideology he became a loud mouth for after. Isn´t Rannoch one if not THE perfect example of how this ideology goes wrong? Had he kept his mouth shut, would he been subject to the shrinks? That´s why I´m staunchly against this ideology, and as strange as it may sound, listening to my advice , my oh so despicable approach may in fact have spared him from much if not all of his suffering. Yet he made me one of his prime targets and chimed in whenever he could, on reddit and in here. As I said, very much like the Brexiteers who viciously attack any EU "foreigner" despite those EU "assholes" have the benefit of a prospering UK in the EU in their minds. They literally attack those most fiercely who show the deepest concerns about how UK will turn out once they´re off the EU. If Rannoch only met me earlier in life, before he made the poor decisions....maybe he could have been spared of all his miserable experiences, who knows...that´s one of the paradoxies in this: that those you identify as your worst "enemies" and your staunchest adversaries are in fact those who have your own wellbeing in mind the most. I´m not an asshole that is out for trolling people. I´m not doing all this because I wanna be entertained or something. I do this because the community is my interest and I would desperately wish for this to be realised in the community. I don´t want to sell you the "legal zoophilia" snakeoil, my focus lies on something that is way too underrepresented in any zoo forum: how to survive as a zoo in the recent status quo. How to steer clear of all the perilous situations, how to avoid fuckups at all costs, how to adapt to society in a way that might not satisfy the ideologues, but will keep the zoos out of bullshit. Due to his Asperger, Rannoch never realised my true intentions behind my "hateful drivel", he never thought about the simple fact that each and ever single zoo that is listening to my advice and leading a life with his animal partner uninterrupted by authorities is a victory for us. And that abandoning even the last bit of ideology to achieve this is absolutely worth throwing the soundbits into the trash can. That we as zoos will only survive if we adapt instead of turning our forums into screech fests of "Ermergerd, he says we should change ourselves...dis wanker!" That´s my entire point, I do see things from a bigger perspective and maybe that´s my biggest fault as a member of a community that´s so entrenched in their filter bubble. Real change starts with you, and only you. Rannoch couldn´t see that and he was only one of the overwhelming majority that lacks this simple insight. That´s the whole crux of the Rannoch-30/30 relation...
