01-06-2019, 04:40 AM
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2 hours ago, mrpaws said:
I do not mean to be rude but if it isnt that rare then why didnt it happen to someone experienced as you?
Because at the time, I was young and didn't have any of the proper anatomy information: growing up on a farm I knew how it worked.. But wasn't sure *I* could handle it.. So I would drop or shift a little to prevent a full tie.. Didn't mean we didn't love eachother or that I wasn't willing.. Just happened with me being quite young an inexperienced.. I've learnt a lot since then and have poured -hours- of research in to veterinary texts, posts from other zoos (guides like Caikgoch and advice like Threelegs have given), and compared the info with my own personal experiences. I really think you should listen to those two.
If you are too scared or uncomfortable, don't do something you'll regret.. But trust me on this one: It's a bond like none other, an experience that can't be described or topped really.. Especially if you -are- attracted to him. I do think you're letting fear get the better of you, and if you're a 'new zoo' trust me, I understand it. I've been there as have most of us.
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2 hours ago, mrpaws said:
I didnt because i always read before that lube wasnt a thing that was ever needed because dogs were already... uh ... 'slidy' enough to begin with?
Again, Caikgoch is correct.. Your warm, smooth, soft internals along with how much 'pre' and fluid he leaks on first entry is enough for lubing your passageway about 99.9% of the time.. Your dry hands are another matter completely. That's why I suggested lube if you wanted to 'feel him' first to reassure yourself.
A tennis-ball sized knot is a good size, remember they don't go inside fully swollen.. It's a gradual stretch and swell as he thrusts. My lover was large apple - to a good orange-size.. I wish I had more info when he was alive and I'd have tied every time.. The few times he did nearly lock me in felt amazing.. It's a full feeling, a stretch.. But not really painful.. Your bowels are pretty flexible at the 'bottom end' like our 'more experienced' dog lovers have said.
Again, I'm not trying to 'talk you into' doing something you don't want to do, but I really think you'd enjoy the bond with him. If you're not comfortable, you're not comfortable though.
Best of luck in whatever you decide. [img]<fileStore.core_Emoticons>/emoticons/smile.png[/img]/emoticons/[email protected] 2x" title=":)" width="20" />
