01-12-2019, 09:37 AM
Don't get frustrated. I have known a lot of dogs. Most seem to have real good instincts or desires to make it simply happen almost easily. Some only seem to have the idea, and need to figure out to to make it happen. Think about what is working and what might bot be. figure out what needs to change.
Most dogs once they feel the tip IN... they reflex almost jump forward to get all in. Some don't seem to get that instant thought of FUCK...I"M IN. Sounds like you may experiencing one that doesn't get that reflex. I am getting the impression that he is simply not moving forward farther once he starts in. Most dogs once in hump hard enough to not slip out unless they hump too hard and pull back too far, accidentally pulling out.
Watch a few GOOD VIDS, where the dog seems to be good at it, and is in and going to town quickly.... pay attention to HOW they did it .... how the person was positioned, where and how close he was when he nailed it. A lot of us rock back in too him when he starts in, so he goes all in fast, and has less chance to slip out, more in, more has to come back before he slips out. Closer his ass is to you when he's all in, less room he has to pull back.
WARNING!>>> Sounds like he grips you pretty hard and goes at it pretty good. If you shove back hard .. you just helped him slam it all in. Normally knot and all. The knot is still small enough you likely wont actually feel it go tru or barely. When he feels you behind the knot, he KNOWS IT. You feel him change gears. It might be overwhelming the first time if he is truly horny and serious about it like most are. Several hard thumps into you and the knot is big enough you will start noticing it expanding, if it feels big ... TOO LATE TO change your mind unless you want pain jerking it out. DO NOT PANIC! RELAX and go with it. You got no other real choice.
I DO NOT RECOMMEND shoving back hard on him the first time.
I DO NOT RECOMMEND tieing the first time, for many reasons. If you truly wish to do this, i want you have the best time possible! Because it can be. Why else would so many of us LIKE IT as much as they do. ... Will do another post about the reasons why not tie the first time.
Main reason not to tie first time .. your scared! You have good reason to be. Might be more then your ready for yet.
Second reason ... you do not know how he will handle being tied. You do NOT want him to pull out a full size knot.
Watch some vids of it done right, figure out how to do it that way. To actually succeed getting him in and giving you a good enjoyable humping.
Doesn't sound like he is close enough too you when he mounts? His back legs need to be close to yours. He needs to be close enough when he starts trying that he easily gets a couple inches in, which is what normally triggers that instinct YES i'm in and he instantly tries to get closer to get all in.
What works best for me with dogs that don't seem to be automatic good at it. If he is horny and wanting to go for it and mounts with no problems great perhaps tease him a bit if you need to to get him horny enough. Squat down extra low fully up on your arms first before going to your elbows. Let him mount while your getting on your elbows and still slightly sitting up so he grabs on father up your back. Pulling him closer to you as you drop onto your elbows, with one elbow landing near your knee so you can twist around and quickly reach back to guide him in, if necessary. For me he is not to close even if i feel his dick over my ass. Just lean farther down while reaching back sliding him farther back and i normally only need a to get a finger over him to pull him down and he quickly lines up and he's in. I honestly find it easier if he is that close so i get him in quicker with out any miss stabs. I can keep my shoulders up higher and pull my hips in a bit if i don't want him to tie easy ... or he is close enough i can drop my shoulders down a bit to help keep him deep enough to tie deep.
will post later about some of the things i have learned too not tie if i can't at the the time or a dog i haven't been with before.
You can truly have the time of both your lives with out knotting. After figuring things out with out a tie and enjoying it... good chance you decide at a later date to let him have all of you.
If you know what to expect you can be ready for possible problems or overwhelming experiences with out any surprise panic, because you have an idea of what is happening and how to controll it better so it IS better
