01-12-2019, 11:33 AM
a re read of this thread to get more of a sink in of what is really happening and possible reasons.
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On 1/4/2019 at 2:07 PM, mrpaws said:
Sometimes he would penetrate me for a few seconds but at that point he is not entirely hard and it accidentally goes out which stops him from humping. For the last two tries he could not even get in me anymore and i think i might be missing something...
"he is not entirely hard" ... He won't be, He is not supposed to be.
Dogs do not get a hard on the way we do. Dogs get excited and some will extend a few inches out of his sheath. Some won't extend at all till mounted. Dogs are designed to stay small to get in easy and fast. To get ALL in easy and fast. The sheath is simply loose enough to push back over him, as you have seen giving him oral. Soon as he feels something behind his knot it triggers him to get a hard on FAST so the knot gets to big fast enough, if he can keep it in few seconds, to come back out.
"it accidentally goes out which stops him from humping." YUP think about it? .... if your going for it and slip out, you gonna quit too at least for a moment. Dogs unfortunately when they slip out, most will quit completely and jump off. a horny dog, or a dog that has has sex before even with a bitch ... KNOW they do not want to give up ... quick lick to themselves, quick lick to her to maybe loosen her up some more and they jump back in the game. Your guy is a virgin doesn't have a clue how great it is if he succeeds and either is not horny enough to not want to give up or doesn't have enough instinct not to give up. YET!!!!!!!! These things can be fixed.
It is frustrating at the moment simply because you really want to do this, and he simply has no fucking clue, YET, what he could be experiencing. Simply take the time to really think about it. Then it wont be as frustrating for you. Take your time. There is all the time you need to slow down a bit. Think things thru from his perspective as well as yours.
Dogs are no different then people when it come to sex .. the first time, we got an idea of what happens and why we want to, but mostly because we have heard about what sex is like and have heard some things to give us some ideas of HOW TO do it. He has never even had that much. All he has is the instincts to have sex. In real life dogs only trigger and seriously start thinking about sex when they smell a bitch in heat. You don't have that trigger that makes him instantly want to fuck the shit out of something. A dog that horny will fuck anything he thinks he can. Even a guy with a dog that has never had any sex contact with a person, he doesn't care if your male, bend over shake your ass at him and he will fuck you senseless. Unfortunately you do not have a dog that horny. YET!
I have know a lot of dogs over the years. YES. In my younger days after i learned what fun it was i could not get enough... still can't. But i can control it better now. So like most horny individuals if they can have sex with a partner that wants it just as bad as you do and no doubt enjoys it as much and quite frankly a lot of times a lot more then i do. I am not ashamed to admit i went for it with every dog i had a chance with that wanted to get lucky with me. Growing up on a farm in the eighties almost no one back then neutered almost everyone let their dogs roam free. Horny dogs were everywhere. and i was just as damned horny as they were.
Take your time, go slow and help him learn to want you and why he wants you
Like your on a first date type of thing .. you simply can't just get down and say want to fuck. Treat it like you would another person ... they might say hell yeah, most times you will get slapped or worse.
The same way you would try to warm someone up to going all the way ... do the same type thing with him. Sit on floor and have a good cuddle and scratching and rubbing session. Get him feeling all wonderful and happy. Belly rubs before lightly stroking his junk. FOREPLAY WORKS! Tease him a bit and such but don't start seriously rubbing on his dick. Just a little to tease him so he wants more. Crawl around a bit and such. Play around like your feeling frisky and he will start feeling like that as well. If he trys to mount don't completely let him. Try teasingly like get away from him. You get the point here. Get him feeling frisky, playfull, HORNY. Only when he really tries to mount like he really wants to actually nail you for real. Let him.
Don't tease him to long, you don't want him to give up, just enough so he wants you more then he normally does or tries harder. Let him try. Doesn't work, don't care. When he gets off crawl away wagging your ass, so he KNOWS you are still interested, playfully bounce around and he should interested in playing again. KEEP HIS interest on playing with you and having fun. For a few minutes. you should get at least two to attempts if you keep his interest. If he losses interest take a break for the night. Always give him good boys and such when tries to mount and after wards so he KNOWS he did good even if he didn't. Make him feel good he tried. So he wants to keep trying.
If he does better with each attempt keep going for 3 attempts ... when he doesn't seem as into it and trying, take a break, stand and act all happy still, so some normal type playing while standing if he starts getting back into it again, you could get back down on the floor again playing with him and such ... see if he horny and wants to try and mount again.
Only do this a few times. Then take real break so you both settle back down.
He might come back shortly actilng like he wants to do some more playing ...
Make it as fun for him as possible and he will like playing around with you and want to do it again another day.
You will reach success with him most likely this way. I have. Most times the first or second attempt when he is truly wanting to fuck me he does.
The thing is. Each time the two of you do not succeed. Why? What can you try next time he mounts to make it easier for him to succeed? Angle? Not close enough to get in deep enough? Are you to high to low?
How can you tease him better? What would HE like better?
Make him want you so bad he won't give up till he succeeds.
One success and most dogs are HOOKED. You both should want more. Practice and figuring out what works better for both of you and it only gets better.
Next time he has an idea of what he needs to do to succeed, you know how to hepl him succeed
