01-13-2019, 08:24 PM
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3 hours ago, mrpaws said:
I've also read everything else and I thank you all for it. I didnt expect this much help, so thank you. and im sorry for saying i was interested anymore earlier.
Like I mentioned in one of our first encounters.. You're in pretty good company here.. We all had to learn these things the 'hard way' simply because a lot of the older members, and ones like myself didn't have communities like this one, or even internet access when we discovered. As others have stated: there are no stupid questions especially sinct a lot of this you did not know.
These discussions, and threads are the very reason I like this board so well: also the reason I'm extending it in to a Discord, so members have a place to chat, share, and help.. We don't have a lot of positive image nor do we have a lot of -good- places online for this sort of thing. We (as true, loving, real-world Zoophiles: not pornstars or actors..) really need places like this, and more.
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3 hours ago, mrpaws said:
Does anyone know why hes not interested in licking me? Not even when i cum hes not interested even though i always read male dogs loved that.
Probably a lot of 'porn stories' for the most part.. Or, more likely 'fake guides'.. To put it simply Dogs in a lot of respects towards sex are like people: they all have their drives, desites and er... 'kinks'? - if you will. Some simply do not like to lick.
My lover was a prime example: -loved- to kiss, french, have me suckle on his tongue, and would rim pretty damn good when horny.. But even after -just- finishing he would not lick.. Now the -one- other experience I shared with a Canine was a male Boxer, that's all we did was Oral.. He'd lick like crazy, even nibble at my tip and try to keep going for more after I'd finish.. I actually had to physically stop him once after I came.. He just kept going. Your lover may not be a 'licker'.
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3 hours ago, mrpaws said:
He isnt? His rapey atittude made me think he was. Seems like im in for a suprise..
Sometimes canines can be really 'pushy' and 'grippy', then once you 'submit' and are down and ready they can change their minds.. Or more likely in his case he's still learning about -himself- over just not wanting sex.. You said he's two years old correct? So he's literally *just* crested the lower limit for Canine puberty... He's still learning just like you are. Once he figures it out though, you are definitely in for a surprise. Very likely a pleasureful one.
Now, not trying to take a page from the 'antis' playbook' here, but canines can become sexually excited: and will often hump for dominance too.. So remember, when it comes to 'naughty time' he could also be telling you 'Hey, now *I'm* in charge, and you're going to be my bitch'! Note that dominance doesn't always have to involve aggression.
One thing I commonly did to tease my lover for example.. He'd show interest, I'd lay on my back and sort of 'spread out' in a subby posture, even fake a little whine and push at him gently with my hands.. He'd get rock hard, paw at me and lick my chest / neck (a common thing for canines 'courting'...).
A half-decent place IMHO (there are no real good places for this..) for 'videos' on the subject is video.zoo.cab, I left a link in the Zoo links section to it. There's a specific category there -just- for men and male dogs.. Avoid the 'pet lust' vids, and look back at some of the older ones.. Note it's not legal in all areas.. So a VPN or a private browsing session may be needed.. You'll see what a *real* tie looks like. Though I'd only personally 'watch material' as a last resort.
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3 hours ago, mrpaws said:
I have only used lube when i give hand jobs, and i havent stretched either unless youre talking about using toys. Thanks for the other tip. I really hope i can do that because its near impossible to reach there when he's on top of me.
Yeah, for Hand jobs lube is a must really.. For anal though avoid it and as many toys as possible.. Remember, for his interest you need some friction and tightness.. Just like a bitch.. Also he's going to produce a significant amount of fluids so once he's inside you're going to be pretty slick already.
I know it's disappointing.. I'm still somewhat disappointed in myself for not being able to 'give myself fully' to my lover.. But you can't dwell on that.. Move forward with him and don't let the hang ups get you down.
Remember no one is an 'old vet' at having sex.. Especially their first times.. Also you need to consider NOWHERE (not even veterinarians) teaches humans 'Doggy Sex-Ed'.. It's always 'Oh they just breed, it's all instinct, that's all you need to know! Move along!'.
So, with lack of GOOD available teaching material, the fact that you're both virgins, and the fact that you are both having to learn the mechanics of making love with another species: all compounds to make a pretty complex mess pretty quick, for both sides.
Again, we can offer advice and tips: guides and anatomy, and practical experience.. But every pair of lovers has a lot to figure out for themselves, every partner (human and animal) are different.
I wish you the best and I'm glad we can offer some help. Good luck, and hang in there! [img]<fileStore.core_Emoticons>/emoticons/smile.png[/img]/emoticons/[email protected] 2x" title=":)" width="20" />
