01-16-2019, 02:27 AM
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1 hour ago, mrpaws said:
Above i already explained that id try again, but im still so scared because of the mistakes ive made.
Care is a good thing here. Whilst I can't agree completely with Rott on just reaching down and giving a tug: I will say they can take pressure from a tie.. Now lack of lube as we've discussed can cause other issues like abrasion: gentle tugging with a lubed hand, and soft squeezing are fine.
YOu don't want to condition him to pain obviously but remember, HE'S a virgin like YOU are, so sensations and stimuli are going to feel a little strange at times. Again stopping for a break, cuddles and snuggles is a good thing. Rest then try again.
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1 hour ago, mrpaws said:
Im not a female so there wont be orgasms for me anyway.
Yes, yes there will be... I didn't even get the knot and my lover made me howl out at a peak more than once! See your penile root (base of your penis) runs right along the walls of your anus, even shares nerves with it. Now, you may not experience a climax.. Maybe you're not as sensitive.. But I highly doubt that since you've not had a lot of anal play. Your prostate is right inside there too: that's even more sensitive.. If his knot goes in, pulsing throbbing and pushing against it: chances are you're going to orgasm just from the prostate pressure alone..
Again, I can't tell you for sure simply because everyone is different. The steady throbbing, hotness and wetness of my lover was enough for me.. I'll never forget that feeling as long as I live.
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1 hour ago, mrpaws said:
I already did multiple times even though i try to be careful. Its just that i know nothing about sex at all so i make a lot of stupid decisions even if i am careful.
Personally I still think you're being way too hard on yourself... Now I'm not saying just try any old thing without being careful, not at all.. But in this case.. Have you, on Youtube or anywhere, seen Wolves mate? Seen Dogs mate? Even when tied they can get pretty rough.. I've seen wolves FIGHT whilst tied! Male pulling hard enough to break a full tie with a LOT of yelping from both parties.. He's not made of glass and snowflakes... But unless you *REALLY* hurt him bad, chances are he'll still show interest after a little recovery. As pointed out their flesh is very 'veiny' and capillary-filled, so a slip and even a bit of rough licking on their parts will cause a tiny bit of bleeding.
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1 hour ago, mrpaws said:
its not legal where i live so i cant. I dont know how vpns work at all and what ive read only confused me more.
Don't worry too much over it.. Beast porn is poor learning material for the most part really. I could help you with the VPN if it was absolutely necessary, but that's neither here or there..
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1 hour ago, mrpaws said:
Oh no he goes crazy with kisses, he just doesnt seem to like giving oral.
Give him some time, he may decide he wants to try.. May not.. If not though just respect his wish and do something he -does- like. Just like us, they have their 'things' they like and don't. Your shep sounds like my lover.. He'd kiss me for ages but never licked my shaft once.
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1 hour ago, mrpaws said:
remember reading it somewhere on this site..
Most info on this site is fairly accurate.. But remember it can't possibly cover all cases.. There's too many of us with just as many animal lovers.. So there's going to be faults and flaws somewhere.. I said it the way I did because the common 'internet searches' ('Googling it', for example) leads to some sites that have just outright wrong information, or information with half-truths and facts mixed in. An example of this was an old guide for women having sex with boars.. Said they'd pin you down, hump like mad and lock in to a woman's cervix.. Stay there for fifteen plus minutes and leave em' gushing when he pulled out.., To my knowledge, it's impossible for a Boar to 'lock' a woman like a sow..
This isn't really relevant to what we're talking over here: just an example of a partial fact that's been stretched for whatever reason. Just like the tidbit you see around that says all male dogs will lick anything relentlessly..
Good luck and hang in there paws! We're pulling for you and your lover! :hug:
