01-24-2019, 01:48 PM
I dunno what your belief system is, but I've had both human and non-human committed partners over the years. Each and every one I gave my all to, staying faithful to just that one. Being in love, it wasn't as hard as you'd think, and it really didn't matter to them who else I might be attracted to as long as I wasn't cheating on them. In other words I never really felt a need to tell my human partners. None of my human relationships lasted forever, though none of them really ended badly, and I've had two wonderful lifelong (for them) zoo relationships.
I can't say this will be your way, or your life. I can't say you should, or should not, give this girl and yourself a chance. I can only say that for me a lover was just that, and didn't need to know of the one before, and neither of us needed to know of the one possibly to come.
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