03-19-2019, 05:49 PM
I will limit my response here to bitches since that is what I have the most experience with. For a rough ratio I would say it is something like 3:1 where my current canine partner initiates. When it comes to other dogs I would say it is probably 4:1 with me initiating. There are some cases with other dogs where I see them regularly and the ratio might drop more to 1:1. The basic point in those numbers though is the ones that have learned that the contact is good are more likely to seek it out.
With the bitches that seek it out the behaviour is pretty standard and they do one of a number of things. Either present themselves in the typical standing heat pose with tail flagged and back arched, start getting more "in your face" by presenting themselves closer and closer, pawing for attention whilst presenting, mounting, rubbing their vulva against me, etc. When I initiate I generally start by rubbing around their vulva and going from there hoping to work up to basic penetration where I can stimulate her enough to get her off.
I have been lucky enough to have played with a lot of bitches and have experienced everything from a bitch that wouldn't let you touch her at the peak of her standing heat to ones that one man could never satiate. The ends of the spectrum are rare and most tend to fall in the middle. The few I've known that didn't want any sexual interaction didn't really have anything in common with one another though there are factors that can make the process take more time such as past abuse/trauma and breed traits like skittishness. Even if you both want it right away there are physical factors to overcome such as how impossibly tight she might be. When I adopted my current girl I went about seeing how she'd respond to sexual play after she'd had a couple weeks to settle in and despite her immediate positive reception it took just over two weeks of play to gently stretch her out enough to take me. This isn't an attempt on my part to proclaim how massive I am in that department but just a simple reality that is rarely spoken about for some reason - most virgin bitches cannot physically accommodate a human male right away.
As an aside I've noticed a few breed characteristics over the years. Rottweilers seem to be one of the easiest breeds to successfully have fun with. I have played with 7 Rotty bitches over the years and have experienced an enthusiastic response from every single one. I have had my best fun by far with Rotties - they are fantastically enthusiastic partners sexually and in every other way. German Shepherds IMO feel the best. They seem to have this ability to remain tight the entire way through the fun. I am struggling to described the feeling but it is like a silky gentle squeezing that never goes away. All bitches tend to be intensely tight and squeeze but with German Shepherds it is just more pronounced and isn't lost or minimised through the act.
As far as socialising goes it really depends who I am having fun with. With my own partner she does the typical go crazy thing when sex is over but soon settles and is very cuddly. If it is a night session or just a day session where I don't need to do anything then I'll usually stay in bed with her cuddling for a long while afterwards. With others it depends entirely on the situation and what they want - some want to cuddle, some want to just continually go crazy and run around, some want to go out, some just want to clean up and go to sleep.
I am not really a man of romance when it comes to other bitches I might get to have sex with. The romance is kind of reserved for those I have a close bond with and I don't think it has to be a factor to have sex. As long as I have permission, she is receptive, welcoming, consenting and we can both have fun then that is what we do.
Another aside before I wrap up this rambling and fairly random reply... dogs can have a sense for intent, doubt, guilt, etc. All dog lovers zoo or not will likely say that but rarely does it seem to be considered in the context of a zoosexual relationship or fling. Most male zoos I know who have failed with having fun with their bitch (or others) did so because they approached it full of concern, nervousness and doubt. It is a mistake a lot of new zoos make and unfortunately once a bitch gets the idea that sex is in any way negative it can often be the end for any fun at all. There is going to be much more success achieved when it is approached confidently with the intention in mind of pleasuring her, having some fun and seeing where it goes.
