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32 minutes ago, Dane layer said:
Having a timeframes are good for setting up vet appointments and the like, but trying to rush and find a pet I personally don't think it's a good idea.
Trying to rush and find a partner you could end up with one that you really didn't want wrong breed or personality type of things.
If you don't like being a zoo then why look for a partner? Just out of curiosity
I am not rushing, a year is plenty of time to figure things out, the thing is that I have been doing this for years so far, and what I am missing right now is mainly guts to do it because everything else should be fine.
Well, one doesn't like many things in life, but still needs those things; I tried to change myself many times but zoo always wins; I feel trapped by my own zoophilic desires day and night, and it's not just sexual, it has a lot of emotions inbetween, the need to groom my lover is so intense, caress some fur, keeps me awake at night, I truly feel like I could fall in love with an animal, and remove all this stress from my body, either to blow my expectations with some things or to feel dissapointed in others, but that would definitely "calm it down".
I'd assume that it's simple a part of growing up that makes you shift and makes you seek for a mate, whether you like it or not.
And before you wonder what my expectations are, well I had a dog as a kid, I would expect that dynamic but at the same time the dynamic to be his mate (which is unknown to me). I'd love if he gets sexual with me as well, that feeling of intimacy.
